If We Were Honest Making Plans
Play videoThis Buzzfeed video is an interesting look at the topic of refusals covered in Kitzinger and Frith (1999) where three people (including Quinta Brunson!) are invited to a party, and two of them decline the invitation using a mixture of pauses, palliatives, and prefaces, as discussing in the conversation analysis of the 1999 paper. Then Quinta gives a simple refusal of, "I won't be at the party because I don't want to go". The others are confused and humorously try to provide her with appropriate excuses. I think the most interesting thing here regarding gender is that Quinta is in a group of 3 other men, all of whom engage in complicated refusals while Quinta, the only woman, pointedly does not (and no one calls her a bitch like in the Maya Rudolph SNL video).